The big moment has finally arrived – your fiance has asked you to marry him, and you said yes! And now you are in the midst of planning the biggest day of your life. It can feel overwhelming to know that you have so many decisions to make, including what to wear, who to invite, and where your ceremony should take place. But don’t let the stress of it all get you down. You can create the perfect wedding ceremony that fits you and your fiance perfectly. Whether you want to go with tradition or make it your own, there is no wrong way to say I Do.
The word bride comes from the Old English bryd, which means a betrothed woman or one who is about to get married. It is also a term of endearment, used to show respect and affection for someone. The origin of the word reflects the fact that women were once often considered commodities or pawns in marriages, intended to strengthen family alliances, secure economic benefits, and enhance social status. In some cultures, brides were dressed in white to symbolize their purity and innocence. Today, brides are usually adorned in beautiful dresses and carry bouquets of flowers to honor their loved ones.
A bride may also be known as the ‘queen of hearts’ for her ability to bring happiness and good luck to those around her. She is often the focus of attention at a wedding, and her role in the ceremony helps to establish the couple’s roles in their family and community.
In a Christian wedding, the bride is called the “bride of Christ,” which signifies that she will share in the eternal joy of his salvation. In a Jewish wedding, the bride is escorted to her groom under a four-poled canopy structure called a chuppah. During this ritual, she is surrounded by her parents and other close relatives, and she may or may not be accompanied by the flower girls and ring bearers.
Once the bride and groom have exchanged their vows, they walk back down the aisle together to a recessional song, with guests cheering them on and offering blessings. Then, the bride and groom may choose to share a first dance with their closest friends and family members.
Not all couples want to, or can afford to, host a reception following their ceremony. But don’t let anyone tell you that your wedding isn’t a real wedding if you don’t have one! The most important thing is that you and your fiance celebrate your commitment to one another in a way that feels meaningful to you. And don’t forget to thank your wedding celebrant for helping you plan the ceremony of your dreams!