A honeymoon is a special time of joy and delight for newly married couples. It’s a chance to spend uninterrupted time together, reaffirm their commitment to one another and create memories they’ll cherish for a lifetime. But it’s important to remember that the honeymoon phase is not an endpoint, it’s just a natural step in a new relationship. In fact, once a couple begins the transition out of the honeymoon phase they can experience an increase in their happiness as a result of becoming more comfortable with each other.
The honeymoon is the first step in a lifelong journey of love and commitment. The initial excitement of a new relationship, and the heightened physical and emotional intimacy it brings, can give you a unique sense of closeness that can be nurtured throughout your marriage. It’s the reason stolen glances feel like secrets shared and kisses feel like treasures — this powerful chemistry is what makes it so special and so lasting.
However, once the honeymoon is over, it can be easy to feel let down or even cheated. But that’s okay! In fact, it’s a healthy and vital part of your relationship. This is when you’re likely to develop more of a routine in your life with your partner, and this can make it easier for you to spot problems or red flags that may not have been as noticeable during the honeymoon.
It’s also a time to develop your own unique bonding rituals. Whether that’s through cooking or dancing, playing games or exploring your surroundings, there are endless opportunities to bond with your spouse through shared experiences. And, while you’re enjoying each other’s company, it’s a great time to talk about your dreams and aspirations as a couple — and work on setting goals for the future of your relationship.
But what most couples don’t realize is that the honeymoon doesn’t have to end when their trip does. The true essence of the honeymoon is a celebration of your commitment to each other and it’s just as valid if you’re spending your honeymoon at home instead of on the beach in St. Lucia.