While many people may dream of having the perfect wedding it’s important to keep in mind that a wedding is a celebration of a marriage not a showcase of one person. It’s easy to get caught up in the hype of a beautiful event and it’s equally as important not to overspend.
Regardless of the size of the wedding, every couple should sit down together and determine their priorities. This will help ensure that the day reflects what’s most important to them while helping to limit disagreements or conflicts throughout the planning process. The guest list is an essential part of this process and can influence everything from venue selection to the budget for various vendors.
Many couples have a clear idea of who they want to invite, however it’s not always possible to invite everyone. Keeping a B-list in mind will help in the event that some guests must decline. Once you have an idea of who’s coming it’s a good idea to set up a website where your guests can RSVP and find out more information about your big day. This is also a great way to collect addresses which will come in handy for sending out invitations.
It’s essential to establish a clear understanding of roles and expectations with your bridal party and family members in order to ensure that everyone has the right level of involvement. Whether you want them to help you plan or just be there on the day of the wedding to make sure no detail is missed, it’s important to be able to ask for help when needed.
Your wedding is your day so don’t be afraid to incorporate traditions that have special meaning to you and your partner. It could be a custom from your culture, or a tradition that you want to start for future generations.
One of the most significant parts of your ceremony will be your vows. Whether you opt for traditional vows or write them yourself it’s a very personal moment that you and your partner will remember forever. The ring exchange is another highlight of the ceremony, and once you’re finished kissing it’s time to begin the recessional, where your bridal party and family will walk back up the aisle in reverse order to how they entered.
Then there’s the reception which is a fun time to celebrate with all your friends and family. You can have a sit down dinner with your loved ones, have a buffet or dance the night away to your favorite tunes.
Most importantly, don’t forget to make time for each other throughout the process. You’ll be spending a lot of time together on your wedding day so it’s essential to build up some quality time beforehand by doing activities that you both enjoy and taking regular breaks. It’s also a good time to take care of your mental health and invest in premarital counseling, to help you navigate the ups and downs that lie ahead.