Traditionally, the bridal shower is a party held for close female friends and family members to spoil the bride ahead of her wedding. It’s also a great opportunity to introduce her new fiancé or husband-to-be.
As with any event, planning a bridal shower can feel overwhelming. To help you get started, take a look at these expert-approved tips:
Choose a date and time that fits the bride’s schedule. This is especially important if you’re inviting a large group of people. If you don’t give them enough notice, some guests may have prior commitments and be unable to attend. It’s also important to factor in any day-of obligations, like work, school or church responsibilities.
Consider a venue that can accommodate your entire guest list (or at least as many as possible). While you might be tempted to go with the first option that’s available, keep in mind that prices and packages vary from location to location. Take some time to research options, and don’t be afraid to negotiate prices with potential venues.
Before finalizing your guest list, consult with the bride and her key family members to determine which people should be invited, and who should receive a plus-one. It’s also a good idea to ask previous wedding attendees what they enjoyed most about the experience—they might have some helpful advice to share!
When planning your menu, take into account any food restrictions that your guests might have. For example, if the bride has celiac disease or is pregnant, it’s best to avoid foods that contain gluten or are high in sodium. In addition, it’s a good idea to provide vegetarian and vegan options for those who do not consume meat or dairy products.
Whether you’re hosting a brunch, afternoon tea or evening soiree, it’s always a good idea to serve a signature cocktail and a variety of alcohol. It’s also a nice touch to include a non-alcoholic beverage for any guests who don’t drink or prefer not to.
For the final touch, consider adorning the bride-to-be’s throne with flowers, moss and other leafy greens for an Instagrammable moment. Or, opt for a hot pink letter board to make the bride-to-be’s opening of her gifts that much more special.
Embrace traditions that have a meaningful or historic meaning to you and your partner-to-be. This could be familial or cultural customs that have been passed down through generations, or maybe a tradition you and your partner want to start for future generations of couples. It’s sure to add a special touch to your big day that you, your loved ones and your children will enjoy for years to come.