A wedding is a very special event and can be incredibly stressful to plan. There are many things that need to be taken into consideration, from the number of guests to the venue and the food, it is no small task to pull off a successful wedding. However, it is important to remember that a wedding is not about the décor or the menu; it is about making a vow of eternal love to your significant other.
The ceremony should reflect that and make the commitment to each other clear to all present. It is also an opportunity for the couple to ask for God’s blessing and protection over their marriage. Some couples may choose to have designated family and friends recite scripture readings in both Hebrew and English during the service, which is a lovely tradition.
Many of the same traditions that have become part of modern wedding ceremonies were established by immigrant communities who came together to celebrate their love in a way that made sense for them. This is why it’s so wonderful that modern wedding ceremonies are more personal than ever, allowing couples to choose traditions and customs that resonate with them.
Creating core memories with people is what so many of us crave in life, and what better way to do that than on your wedding day? Whether you go all out or keep it low key, your wedding day should be filled with special moments that will leave you and your new husband feeling fulfilled.
Create a Guest List
While it might seem like a daunting task, you should sit down with your partner and the most important people in your life to put together a wish list of who you would like to attend your wedding. This will help you figure out how many people your budget can accommodate, and it will also give you a rough idea of what your final guest count will be. It is best to set this number early on, as many other decisions will be based off of it.
Decide on a Wedding Date
Once you have a guest count and a budget in place, you can decide on the rest of the details for your big day. It is helpful to use an app or spreadsheet for this, as it will keep all of your ideas in one place and make them much easier to manage. Some of our favorite tools include WeddingHappy for staying on track with your to-do list and AllSeated for visualizing seating charts and planning the layout of your venue.
Pick Your Processional Music
The processional is an emotional moment in your wedding and the choice of song will help you to express your personality and make a memorable entrance. The traditional choice is Pachelbel’s Canon in D, but many brides and grooms are choosing more contemporary melodies that hold special meaning for them.
Have the Groom Lift the Veil
It might sound obvious, but it is crucial that you have someone responsible for lifting your veil at just the right time during your wedding photos. Usually, this will be the maid of honor, but if she is not available it can be a close friend or relative.