Weddings aren’t just about the bride and groom; they represent a new beginning for a whole community of family, friends and loved ones. As a result, it’s no surprise that more and more couples want their ceremonies to reflect the unique way they love each other and the kind of life they hope to build together.
Whether you want to keep things traditional or create your own customs, there are endless ways to make your ceremony feel more personal. From the readings you choose and who reads them to the music you walk down the aisle to, it’s all up to you and your team of two!
Starting with a clear vision of your wedding day is the best way to ensure that the decisions you make throughout the planning process will align with your overall aesthetic. Once you’ve established your vision, it will guide you in choosing the decor, food and entertainment that truly speaks to you and your partner.
A common request from couples is to include a part of the ceremony that will remind them of how they fell in love, and it can be anything from a short reading to a special dance. These are the kinds of details that help your guests connect with you and each other, and they can add an element of intimacy to your big day.
The About Us section of your wedding website is a great place to share details about your relationship that will give your guests a more intimate understanding of the way you love. It can be as long or as short as you like, but it’s important to remember to write it like a conversation and not a professional bio. You may want to include some humor if you’re comfortable with it, but don’t be afraid to skip the inside jokes and freely share the stories that are most meaningful to you and your partner.
Some of the most beautiful wedding moments come from the way that you choose to welcome your guests and send them off after the ceremony. There are so many fun and creative ways to do this, from a champagne toast to a grand exit with sparklers or confetti.
Many traditions are still beautiful and rooted in meaning, but they’re not for everyone. If a tradition doesn’t resonate with you or your partner, don’t feel obligated to include it. I’ve worked with countless couples who’ve chosen to skip the bouquet toss or the first dance, and that’s completely okay! Creating your own traditions can be just as meaningful, and it can be a fun way to honor your family and friends.