The honeymoon is a special time for newlyweds to celebrate their marriage and enjoy romantic getaways. It is often celebrated in exotic or romantic places and can involve various activities such as hiking, swimming, taking a romantic strolls and exploring the local culture and cuisine. It can also be a time for couples to learn more about each other by doing things they both enjoy such as playing games, going to carnivals and other activities that let them know what makes the other tick.
Honeymoon is also the name of a popular bridal magazine, first published in 1922. The magazine features photos and articles about weddings, brides-to-be, grooms-to-be, ceremonies, receptions and honeymoons. Its aim is to be a comprehensive resource for wedding planning.
During the honeymoon phase, you may find that your partner is more charming and endearing than ever before. This is because during this period, your love hormones spike up triggering feelings of euphoria and bliss. However, it is important to understand that the honeymoon is only a temporary stage and will eventually come to an end. So, what is the honeymoon exactly and how do you make it last as long as possible?
According to Michelle Mouhtis, a Licensed Therapist and Relationship and Dating Coach, “The honeymoon is an euphoric and carefree period in the relationship where you feel like everything your new partner does is endearing and charming.”
The origin of the word “honeymoon” is unclear. However, it may have derived from the tradition of newlyweds drinking mead, a fermented beverage made of honey, for the first lunar month following their wedding in order to enjoy its sweetness and enhance fertility. This practice was known in many parts of the world and it was believed that the sweet drink would help couples to form a harmonious union and lay a foundation for their marriage.
Today, couples customize their honeymoon experiences to match their unique interests and preferences. For example, adventurous couples may choose a safari or trekking trip while others prefer to relax on a pristine beach. Some couples even set up their own honeymoon registries — a departure from traditional wedding registries that typically include items such as kitchen appliances and linen.
Whether your idea of a perfect honeymoon is relaxing poolside with a pina colada, or experiencing the thrill of an adrenaline rush, it’s a great way to build lasting memories and start your marriage off on the right foot. Moreover, the memories you create during your honeymoon will serve as the foundation for your marriage and provide the key to maintaining a strong bond. Creating these memories together can help you avoid common marital issues and problems such as infidelity, jealousy, communication challenges and money issues. Hence, it is important to plan your honeymoon carefully. You should also make sure to discuss some important topics such as parenting, finances, in-laws and household chores before you go on your honeymoon. This will help you to get a clear idea about what your expectations are and what can be changed later in your life as married couple.